Author Archive for Neal Gorenflo

February Event: Get Off…Line!

In our November event, we discussed how the social web can disempower if not used wisely. On February 24th, we’ll discuss how to use it to improve the quality of our offline lives. Three panelists will help seed the discussion. They’ve explored the interplay between the real and virtual deeply in both practice and thought, and have a passionate commitment to empowering others with the knowledge they’ve gained:

  • Stephanie Smith is a designer and social entrepreneur. Her most recent company WeCommune.com (private beta) facilitates on the ground resource sharing.

And fittingly, this will be a hybrid online / offline event. We’ll be livestreaming the event from the coworking innovation loft, PariSoma.com. We’ll have both online and offline participants. Expect hiccups, failures, and fun. It’ll be a great learning experience in content and form.

All the event details are on Shareable.net, our event partner: http://bit.ly/9bBjAD.

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Top Books & Trends of 2009 & What’s Coming in 2010

Some reading ideas for the holidays and beyond.  Really great list from the P2P Foundation:  The 10 best P2P (nonfiction) books of 2009

From Shareable.net, also quite good, if I do say so myself:

The Best Shareable Books of 2009

Eight Books We’re Looking Forward to in 2010

And another gem from the P2P Foundation:

The 10 Most Important P2P Trends of 2009

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A Holiday Letter to Nonprofit Workers Everywhere

Five years ago, frustrated with holiday shopping, I started a donation exchange with my family to exchange donations to nonprofits instead of gifts. It changed our holidays for the better, brought family closer together, and since then has raised thousands of dollars for causes. Not to mention how much easier on the earth it has been. At the below link is the story of how a family with a mix of progressive and conservative members came together through a holiday donation exchange. The story includes instructions about how you can do it too.

http://bit.ly/5vYHEQ

Imagine how strong the nonprofit sector would be if the $460 BILLION spent on the holidays (in the US alone) went to nonprofits? And if such a tradition doesn’t start with nonprofit workers, who would it start with?

I hope you give it a try. And you could suggest it to your donors, coworkers, and board members too. If there was ever a way to dramatically increase the flow of support into nonprofits, this is it.

Here’s to Happier Holidays!

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January Abundance League: Real Places for Real Lives

There’s a swift invasion underway of our cafes, bars, restaurants, and public spaces all over America. In the last few years, you may have showed up to your favorite neighborhood hangout one morning to suddenly find there’s a flat screen behind the cash register broadcasting advertisements at you. Or you may have taken a date to what used to be a quiet, intimate bistro, only to find that every visible wall is now occupied by giant, blinding TV screens.

When did force-fed TV and “hot media” become de rigeur in our places of dining, conversation, and community? It’s now so commonplace that speaking up or complaining about it will earn you blank looks or confused reactions.

What can we do? Especially when the hospitality industry is barely holding on in a brutal economy, and will do anything to draw more customers?  Might there be another way?

The Real Places Campaign has a plan. Join Jen Burke Anderson and Neal Gorenflo as the Abundance League shares a plan to positively define what we need from our public places, and reward those who deliver.  Come learn about and help shape a grassroots experiment to create real places for real lives.

Event cohost: Shareable, an online magazine about sharing. Join Shareable’s Facebook page here to get ideas for creating a shareable world and chime in with your ideas.

MEETING:
When: WEDNESDAY, January 20th, 2010, 6:30-9:30pm
Where: Cafe Royale, 800 Post St.  San Francisco
(415) 441-4099

AGENDA:
6:30 – 7:00 Arrive – mingle, nosh
7:00 – 7:30 Member announcements lightening round: share your passions, needs & gifts quickly
7:30 – 8:00 Break – nosh, make connections based on announcements
8:00 – 9:15  Presentation and discussion
9:15 – 9:30  Clean up, clear out.

BRING
-Willingness to help others and receive help. Yourself, friends. Note: no potluck this time. Reasonably price fare available at the Cafe Royale.

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Re:Invention, October Meeting Notes

For October’s meeting, we screened RE:Invention, a documentary short by Catherine Goerz and crew about how some are using the economic crisis for personal transformation. The discussion that followed covered a lot of ground, but a couple interesting themes emerged for me including the difficulty of leaving a career that pays for one that has meaning, how transformation is a privileged experience when for some just surviving is an accomplishment, how important it is to see others making changes as inspiration.  Also, many people shared their own stories of transformation with lessons learned.

Later Catherine and I brainstormed the below tips for those who want to Re:Invent. The below is by no means a comprehensive. Feel free to add to these ideas in comments.

Catherine:
-Let go of your thoughts and beliefs around who you think you are. Be willing to release your past identity and open to new ways of living and working.

-Let the old structures of your life that may not serve you any more – your job, income, living situation, relationships, etc.- dissolve so that you make space for the new structures to be seeded.

-Create a powerful vision for what you want to manifest in your life. Set a clear and aligned intention to move towards it and allow in the people and situations that will bring it into form. Then let it go.

-If you have lost your job and are living on a reduced income, reassess what you need to be happy and provided for. You may not need a high-paying job, a car or material items to live an inspired and meaningful life.

-Trust the process of transformation and remind yourself that everything is temporary. What may seem like a big impossible situation will shift over time and reveal totally new situations and opportunities for reinvention.

-Be curious about what’s next. Approach the changes in your life with a sense of openness and curiosity. Don’t take anything too seriously.

-When dealing with a crisis, don’t resist the changes that are being foisted upon you. Embrace the challenges and notice your capacity for resiliency and how well you can adapt to new situations when you don’t fight them.

-Observe how you are evolving as time goes by and stay committed to transformation to see it through.

Neal:

-Don’t RE:Invent alone. Form a peer group for the changes you want to make. Or enlist your friends’ support. Let them know what you’re doing. Good friends will get behind you.

-If you don’t know what you want in life, then begin an exploration. Go outside your circle of friends to discover new ideas and people.

-Assess what’s truly interesting to you. Focus in on your passion or passions. Sometimes reflecting on past experience can help you understand what turns you on. Sometimes new experiences are needed.

-When you have an idea of what interests you, then immediately find the community around your interest. Do not wait. Become a part of it. The best way to become part of a community is to contribute something that’s needed. Volunteer. No job is too small to start. Small things lead to big things.

-Be patient. Be persistent. Big changes take time.

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From Participation to Power: The Dark Side of Web 2.0 & What To Do About It

On November 19th, pioneer social change strategist Harald Katzmair, Ph.D will lead us in an exploration of the media environment and cultural moment in which we live, and point the way to from mere participation to power.

Harald’s talk will begin with an exploration of the dark side of Web 2.0. How it can overload us with messages, shrink attention spans, erode focus, and thus disrupt our ability to find common ground and take common action. Through Web 2.0 we may be, as in the title of cultural critic Neil Postman’s influential book, amusing ourselves to death.

We must recognize that individual participation does not necessarily equate to power.  Power is the ability to act. And collective action is what enables citizens to be powerful politically.  Being hyperconnected can overload us and cripple our ability to act as individuals and groups at a time when we need to be really good at taking common action in order to avoid a climate disaster.

In Harald’s view, what’s needed to survive are new tools that can help us do just that. We have to go beyond mere individual participation to collective action. And realize that it’s not the size of your network that counts, but how it’s patterned to achieve a clear goal.

Harald will share cutting edge tools he’s developed to help groups set agendas, act collectively, and mobilize networks for change. What sets Harald’s approach apart is that it’s based on social network analysis and complexity theory, which are especially useful for modeling complex systems, harnessing collective intelligence, and identifying actions that have maximum impact with minimal blow back.

Harald is CEO and Founder of FAS.research, a pioneer in applying social network analysis and complexity theory to solving complex problems in multi-stakeholder environments.   His passion is helping people come together to solve “wicked” problems.   One of his current projects is helping tribal leaders in Jordan develop a water sharing system.  If Jordan does not succeed in this, they’ll run out of water in 20 years.

It should be an eye opening night. I hope you’ll join us.

Event cohost: Shareable Magazine.  Join Shareable’s Facebook page here to get ideas for creating a shareable world and chime in with your ideas.

MEETING:
When: Thursday, November 19th, 2009, 6:30-9:30pm
Where: Citizen Space , 425 Second St., #100, San Francisco

AGENDA:
6:30 – 7:00 Arrive – mingle, nosh
7:00 – 7:30 Member announcements lightening round: share your passions, needs & gifts quickly
7:30 – 8:00 Break – nosh, make connections based on announcements
8:00 – 9:15  Presentation and discussion
9:15 – 9:30  Clean up, take the discussion to the 21st Amendment

BRING
-Willingness to help others and receive help
-Healthy stuff for the potluck
-Yourself, friends

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The Four Degrees of Sharing

4 - town car shareJanelle Orsi wrote a great piece for Shareable called The Four Degrees of Sharing.

The opening paragraph is a great summation of what Shareable, a new online magazine I’m producing these days, is all about actually.

“Sharing is a big deal these days. Sharing is a growth industry, a new field of study and of practice; it presents a realm of career opportunities, a new way of life, and a concept around which we are restructuring our world. Sharing is the answer to some of today’s biggest questions: How will we meet the needs of the world’s enormous population? How do we reduce our impact on the planet and cope with the destruction already inflicted? How can we each be healthy, enjoy life, and create thriving communities?”

I really like Janelle’s approach.  She’s makes a new perspective easy to grasp.

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The Sharing Solution

My friends Emily and Janelle, authors of The Sharing Solution, are giving a book talk in San Francisco tonight.  Janelle is know to break out in song during her talks, so don’t miss that.  Here’s the details:

Janelle Orsi and Emily Doskow present The Sharing Solution
2251 Chestnut Street (Marina neighborhood), San Francisco, CA
www.booksinc.net
Tuesday, September 29, 2009, 7:30pm

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Beyond Awkward, September 2009 Abundance League Meeting Notes

Last week we had a World Cafe styled brainstorm to raise our collective romantic IQ. Love and relationships are private, yet so necessary to a great life. This gave our temporary mutual aid society around love and relationships a special energy, not to mention sparking lots of laughter. I commend those who came and shared their needs, fears, and ideas so openly. Everyone held space for the vulnerability that comes with love and relationships without taking it too seriously either. Below are the ideas that the group generated about dating and relationships in two 15 minute brainstorms.

Dating ideas:

-For those of you that hate dating, remember that dating is a skill. You can get better at it, which will make it more fun and increase the chances of finding a good mate.
-Don’t have sex out of relationship
-Or to put it another way, dating doesn’t necessarily mean having sex with different people, it can mean a nonsexual way to find someone to commit to
-Find and pursue your passions, this better the odds of finding someone who shares your passions
-Have no expectations, or to put in a Zen way, do not become attached to the outcome, be and act in the moment, this is one of the secrets of doing well in any field

Continue reading ‘Beyond Awkward, September 2009 Abundance League Meeting Notes’

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Meeting Reminder: Beyond Awkward – Dating & Relationship Strategies That Bring Joy & Confidence

Just wanted to remind you about our meeting this Thursday where we’ll share our knowledge about dating and relationships to raise our collective romantic IQ.  You want more love? Come and get it.  See meeting details here.

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